Wednesday, March 28, 2012

I am TOUCHED By This Real Life Experience - The Man With No Hands & Leg

With GREAT DETERMINATION, NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE.

This is the video that was shown at the workshop during day 1.

Nick Vujicic


Another video related that I found when I "google" search after the course ended:









I came to know about this story during the "workshop" conducted recently by the 2 motivators from Asia Gold Bell organised by NECDC. This story or rather the real life experience of Nick Vujicic had touched my heart. It knock me hard in my mind & left me thinking.

This have taught me on how we shouldn't take things for granted. Even we as normal human being with complete 5 senses but yet we still complain. We easily give up when things does not go according to our plan or expectations. After failing for a countless number of times, we get frustrated and can't be bothered to try again. That's the normal attitude of a human being including myself.

But by looking at Nick in this video, it had left me thinking to change my perception in life. If he with impaired disabilities never give up to rise after he had fallen, why can't I do the same. It must be hard on him to get up on his own without any help but he had a great determination to get up by himself. Finally he succeed.

                                              

Same things goes in life. Nothing is IMPOSSIBLE if we put our heart & soul in whatever we do.

There are even many unfortunate people out there whom are physically impaired like for example Nick. But Nick being a man without legs and arms, he have this great determination to achieve something in life. He prove to others that he can also lead a life like a normal human being.

In many times, I often say NO. Often back up with reasons on why I cannot. But this time, instead of saying NO, I'll say I CAN! Even if I were to go to the extend of working it all out. Giving my full focus attention.

From the workshop, I'm sure many had benefit from it including me. But the problem with me is that I tend to forget things taught in class the moment I left the room. I admit my absent-mindedness. Sometimes it's hard to stay focus the whole day. I had to depend on the sweets provided in our group in order to stay awake.

I felt demoralised and at at times very "small" as compared to those who came. Majority are those who are highly experience & well equipped with skills which I don't have. They were so deep in thoughts. When it comes to sharing ideas, me being the youngest members in the group is the one that lacks everything. I cannot analyse or think in a spontaneous way. I felt terrible. But I am glad that the group is a very supportive type.

But there's this saying; Never compare yourself with others but rather we should compare to our own self. As a different individuals, we have different strengths and weakness, skills etc... From my understanding, if we compared to others, we will never be the same as them. Different people have different capabilities.

Now the question is Will I start to implement on what have been taught and shared during the lesson? I WILL TRY MY BEST. It's easier said than done but I will make an attempt to work on it.

Although I had a difficulty sleeping at night. My night will usually begins close to lunch hour or few hours before it. My sleep will only last for as little as 2 hours or longest 4 hour in a day. My day time becomes the night and night time becomes the day. My body clock is rotated. It always happen that I would stay awake 24 hours straight.

But surprisingly even though I did not sleep the whole night when I was attending the workshop, I didn't doze off during lesson. I'm surprised myself. I can endure more than 24 hour without sleep and sitting in class listening and taking down certain points of notes.

I'm ending this for now. Will update more if I had the time and determination to do it ;) My eyes are getting heavier as I typed this(yawn).... Good night readers. I am going to bed soon for my "beauty sleep". It's time to rest and relax my mind in order to replace my lack of sleep, of being awake for more than 24 hours. Till the next time. Cherio :)

 I must remind myself  that:

 I ♥ MY LIFE :)

Friday, March 23, 2012

March Buzz

March have indeed been a busy month of the year for me. This month schedule is filled up with so many events happening. As known here, March has been a month for "Career Fair". Every here and there. There are various upcoming career events, job fairs, seminars going on for jobseekers. 

I did attend the largest Career Fairs on 3rd March held at Suntec City Convention Centre with my friend, Meileng. She did most of the "questioning" for me as I'm not sure what to ask and expections, requirements regarding the job. For someone who have he experience in Human Resource Management & currently pursuing her studies in the same field, she seems like a "pro" asking questions. Her communications went on smoothly. Something which I need to learn from her. Thank you my dear friend. I know I can't thank you enough for all your efforts in helping me out. Thanks for being a good listener.

I am aware that I need to improve a lot on my communication skills. I realised that I can write much fluently  (though not a pro) rather than talking it out. But I wanna balance out both. Hopefully one day I can achieve that.

My schedule for March 2012 is indeed filled up. Totally exhausting.With all that laborious hours spent on job search and attending various career events is driving me insane but not yet to that extend. Ahah! Whenever my stress level went up, I shall tell myself to remain calm and stay positive! That's the spirit. Hopefully I'll get to where I aim in life. Insya Allah. God-willing, everything will go as plan.

I'll end my entry for now. Till the next time. Cherio peeps!
    

Wednesday, March 21, 2012

Kisah Hati ~ Alyah





Kisah Hati - Alyah

Hatiku hatimu
Menjadi satu cinta
Ku rasa hadirmu
menyempurnakan aku

Tapi cinta bukan milik kita
Semua harus berakhir

Cinta kau dan aku
Takkan mungkin bersatu
Untuk saat ini di dunia ini

Mungkin kita bersama
Nanti di atas sana
Biar ku setia menjaga cintamu
Selamanya

Tapi cinta bukan milik kita
Semua harus berakhir

Cinta kau dan aku
Takkan mungkin bersatu
Untuk saat ini di dunia ini

Mungkin kita bersama
Nanti di atas sana
Biar ku setia menjaga cintamu

Cinta kau dan aku
Takkan mungkin bersatu
Untuk saat ini di dunia ini
Biar ku setia menjaga cintamu
Selamanya


*Sesungguhnya aku tidak mengejar ♥ namun aku menantikan kehadirannya.

Tersentuh pula dengan petikan dari filem "Syurga Cinta" seperti yg tertera di bawah ini:

"Jodoh terbahagi kepada tiga jenis. 


Pertama, jodoh dari syaitan. 


Kedua, jodoh dari jin. 


Dan ketiga, jodoh dari Allah."

1) "Yang pertama, jodoh dari syaitan."

"Kamu bertemu pada pandangan pertama, kamu suka dia, dia suka kamu. Kamu bercinta, berpegangan, berzina, dan dia mengandung. Kamu bernikah. Itu jodoh dari syaitan."

"Yang kedua, jodoh dari jin."

"Kamu bertemu pada pandangan pertama, kamu suka dia, tapi dia tidak suka kamu. Kamu pergi jumpa bomoh, mintak tolong jin. Kamu pun bernikah. Itu jodoh dari jin."

"Yang ketiga, jodoh dari Allah."

"Kamu bertemu pada pandangan pertama, kamu suka sama suka, kamu bernikah."

Aku inginkin jodoh yang ketiga kerana Jodoh dari Allah adalah yang terbaik. 

Monday, March 19, 2012

Number One For Me



Number One For Me - Maher Zain 

I was a foolish little child
Crazy things I used to do
And all the pain I put you through
Mama now I'm here for you
For all the times I made you cry
The days I told you lies
Now it's time for you to rise
For all the things you sacrificed

Chorus:

Oh, if I could turn back time rewind
If I could make it undone
I swear that I would
I would make it up to you
Mum I'm all grown up now
It's a brand new day
I'd like to put a smile on your face every day
Mum I'm all grown up now
And it's not too late
I'd like to put a smile on your face every day

And now I finally understand
Your famous line
About the day I'd face in time
'Cause now I've got a child of mine
And even though I was so bad
I've learned so much from you
Now I'm trying to do it too
Love my kid the way you do

Chorus:

You know you are the number one for me (x3)
Oh, oh, number one for me
There's no one in this world that can take your place
Oh, I'm sorry for ever taking you for granted, ooh
I will use every chance I get
To make you smile, whenever I'm around you
Now I will try to love you like you love me
Only God knows how much you mean to me

CHORUS

You know you are the number one for me (x3)

Oh, oh, number one for me
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Here's the Music Video to the lovely song: 

http://youtu.be/f4J7-WR1QOY



The lyrics are simple but leave a deep meaning. My definition of this song; We should seize every opportunity that we have. To love and appreciate our mum before it's too late.

 "Mum, you are Number One in our heart" 

Listening to this song reminds me of my mum. How I wish she's still around. Her passing was truly a shocking news for me. It was a setback in my life.

Sharing is caring. That's why I thought of sharing this with everyone. Go ahead and share this to the rest. I'm ending this for now. Till the next update. Cherio readers!

*Remember a smile is all it takes to cheer up the day. Keep smiling :) 

Friday, March 16, 2012

Dilema Wanita bersama Fiza O

Dilema Wanita bersama Fiza O (Vlog Episod 4 - Yang Baik Dengan Yang Baik!)



A husband who abandoned his wife for another woman. Ended up with him as the loser. Divorced his wife to be with another woman but in the end, he was left penniless. His girlfriend seized all his earnings leaving him penniless. I believe this is karma. He's now homeless, jobless & left with nothing.

As for his ex wife, she moved on with a better & happier life with her 4 year old kid. She's a lucky woman & found herself a new happiness with her CEO'S son. She's getting married with her boss son this coming June.

Wednesday, March 14, 2012

Rainy Days Week

07:40am:Typing this entry at the comfort of my precious bed... *heavy downpour & it's really dark in this room. I'm not using any light but only depending on the light from my laptop monitor to type this out. Perhaps this is the earliest timing I've ever update my blog.

Upon my sleepless night a.k.a. insomnia, I've been doing a lot of thinking. It's been raining these few days. It all started after midnight from my observation.

   


   

So it's like this, I'm telling myself to sleep by closing my eyes but as expected, my mind is not resting. Even if I went to bed early like yesterday, my mind is constantly thinking & wondering about. Nevertheless,  I did managed to get a "quick nap" before waking up early in the the normal timing just in time before the people gets to work.

The result of inadequate sleep, is equivalent to developing acne & eye bag. That's what I've been going through lately. But I'm thankful that I'm not having a "breakout" just like the previous year. It's just that one "irritating acne" that will pop up once or twice within a month but it would eventually go away by itself. Honestly, I've not been treating my acne that pop up for the past 6 months or so. I felt guilty for not taking good care of my skin.

While typing this out, I suddenly missed my daily routine of reporting to work. No matter how tired or lazy I may get, I'll still drag my feet to wake up in order to start working. Once I reached the office, all the laziness went away. I truly missed the atmosphere at the office location. The view from the office window is totally breath taking. I'm hoping the next time I get employed again, the office location shall be similar to my previous work place.

I might have left that place for quite sometime but the memories shall remain in my mind even if I were to be employ once again. It's not easy for me to forget whatever happened while I'm still with that company though it's just for a short period of time. I'm glad that I met a few colleagues that leave an impact in my life. The best thing is we exchanged our contact details before my last day of service. In this way, we shall never lost contact. J.L. & C.L. thank you for being there to keep me company during my time with _____.


Shall end my entry for now. Till the next time. Cherio peeps! Remember a smile is all it takes to cheer up  the day. Keep smiling :) 

p.s. During my "boring days", I did something by tweeting to get as many followers as possible on my twitter. By surprise, I tend to get many followers within a day but after a few days the number of followers decreased. Now, I've given up in tweeting to get more followers by #teamfollowback etc... I'm sure those on twitter will knew what I meant.

Oh my... I took more than 40mins thinking & typing this out. The room is still dark. OK... I'll end this here. ♥♥♥♥




   


*credits to Google Images

Tuesday, March 6, 2012

Intuition

Still loving this song till today.

Intuition lyrics

I'm just a simple girl
In a high tech digital world
I really try to understand
All the powers that rule this land
They say Miss J's big butt is boss
Kate Moss can't find a job
In a world of post modern fad
What was good now is bad

It's not hard to understand
Just follow this simple plan

Follow your heart
Your intuition
It will lead you in the right direction
Let go of your mind
Your Intuition
It's easy to find
Just follow your heart baby

You look at me 

but you're not quite sure

Am I it or could you get more?
You learn cool from magazines
You learn love from Charlie Sheen

If you want me let me know
I promise I won't say no

[CHORUS REPEAT]

You got something that you want me to sell
Sell your sin. Just cash in.
You got something that you want me to tell
You'll love me. Wait and see.

If you want me
Don't play games
I promise 
it won't be in vain
Uh-uh-uh


http://www.elyrics.net/read/j/jewel-lyrics/intuition-lyrics.html )

Live Version:




The Official Video: http://youtu.be/8Ilh1ewceco > ( Embeded disabled by request)

Alternatively, I'll have to include other available video for sharing.



Looks like I'll have to slow down on debating on personal accounts/experiences etc... Need to get some inspirations for a proper update. I'll try to update atleast once a week or atleast once in every month or two.

Till the next update. Cherio peeps :)

Sunday, March 4, 2012

How to Get Rid of Laryngitis (Voice Loss)

http://www.ehow.com/how_6538908_rid-laryngitis.html 


How to Get Rid of Laryngitis

       
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Drinking tea with lemon helps ease the symptoms of laryngitis.
Laryngitis is a condition that refers to the inflammation of the larynx, or voice box. The most common symptom of laryngitis is voice hoarseness or voice loss. This condition is sometimes accompanied by a sore throat. A viral infection can cause laryngitis, but it often occurs from prolonged overuse of the voice. Home remedies can help soothe inflammation and get your voice back to working condition.

Read more: How to Get Rid of Laryngitis | eHow.com http://www.ehow.com/how_6538908_rid-laryngitis.html#ixzz1o8tJpi9s
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  • Take a long, hot shower. Steam from the shower helps to ease inflammation in your throat.

  • 2
    Run a humidifier at night to keep your throat from getting dry, which can make symptoms of laryngitis worse.

  • 3
    Drink plenty of water to keep your throat moist. Eight glasses, 8 oz. each, per day is ideal.

  • 4
    Increase your intake of warm beverages, which will soothe your throat. Try hot tea with lemon or honey. Chicken broth is also a good choice.

  • 5
    Rest your voice. The best way to ease the inflammation of your larynx is to not use it.



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    http://www.wikihow.com/Treat-a-Sore-Throat-or-Laryngitis 



    How to Treat a Sore Throat or Laryngitis




    You can tell when you have a sore throat. Your throat is dry and scratchy and it's painful to swallow.
    Sore throat isn't an illness in itself, however. Instead, it's usually an indicator of an oncoming illness like the common cold or the flu. [1] Since a sore throat is often the first sign that you're getting sick, it's important to begin treating it as soon as possible.




    Steps

    1. 1
      Get lots of rest. Stay home from work or school, and make sure you are sleeping more than enough. Adequate rest is extremely important, especially when you're feeling sick.

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    2. 2
      Double the amount of liquids you drink. Water, warm tea with honey, orange juice, and milk are all great things to drink when your throat is sore. Extremely cold or extremely hot things feel nice going down the throat. Your drink will also keep your mucus thin and easy to clear.[2]
    3. 3
      Drink hot substances like tea, soup, apple cider, or bean soup.
    4. 4
      Drink honey and lemon. Add a squeeze of lemon and some honey to hot water. Drink after the liquid reaches room temperature. The honey coats and soothes your throat, while the lemon cuts through the mucus. This tried and true remedy is said to relieve most of your throat pain -- at least temporarily. [2]
    5. 5
      Eat or drink something warm and soothing. Green Tea with honey/Lemon is a time-tested remedy. Any kind of soup like chicken noodle, minestrone, beef and barley, vegetable, etc. is great for your sore throat. Try avoiding soups with high sodium content since the salt can irritate or burn the throat.
    6. 6
      Use lozenges and throat sprays. They will offer temporary relief against your sore throat.
    7. 7
      Even if it is disgusting, take some cough syrup. This will help to suppress a cough (if one develops), as well as ease throat pain.
    8. 8
      Rest your voice. Speak softly or avoiding speaking all together. Perhaps take a day off from work or school to rest. If talking is a necessity, keep from shouting or talking loud, as these will damage the throat much more than simple talking. Whisper or talk softly.[3]
    9. 9
      Take painkillers such as ibuprofen (Advil, Motrin etc.) or acetaminophen (Tylenol). [3]
    10. 10
      Gargle warm salt water. Mix 1/2 teaspoon of salt in a glass of water. This is an unappealing remedy, but it is very effective. Drink the water, gargle it and then spit it out. This will help alleviate pain and clear your throat of mucus.
    11. 11
      Take a spoonful of honey. Honey acts like a lotion to lubricate or coat the throat and temporarily relieve pain. A teaspoon of honey swallowed before bed will ensure a cough-free slumber.
    12. 12
      Ginger and chamomile tea are extremely popular with sore throats.