It's The End Of Raya

Today's 27 September & it's the last day of Eid... 29 Syawal. Fasting lasted for 29 days & so do Eid. Like the saying goes; every beginning will come to an end. It's always hard to say goodbye but life must go on.

With Syawal ending, it means that September will come to an end in a few days time. Times flies real quick. Sometimes I feels that I couldn't keep up with life. The more I try to chase time, the more further time will run... I'm mentally tired...

Back to the topic. What I did last weekend?

It's the final week of Syawal... So I was invited to an open house on Saturday conducted by my relative(aunt side). Last year, I did not make it to their open house due to "time clash".. So this year I managed to turn up. Throughout the day, I stood at the kitchen. In between when I felt tired, I sat for a while & observe whoever guests that came by. I felt lethargic, tired despite me not helping out much. Physically, I'm exhausted! I'm quite surprised that I still received an "hangbao" this year despite my current age right now. It's embarrassing to accept but I just accept. Like the malay saying, (rezeki jangan ditolak)...

It's quite an exhausting weekend for me. I reached home past midnight upon returning from the open house. This is what I call "Girl Power!" Terror right? Ahaha...  Bcos we are the "Charlie's Angel" . We can be independent even without a man beside us...

The next day which is Sunday, I have my agenda for the day. I finally meet up with my dear old friend of a decade(This is the 10th year in our friendship) after postponing our meet up for nearly a year. It's over 10 months since our last meet up. Honestly it's such an enjoying moment whenever I spent time hanging out with her. Every seconds past felt so quick. Without us realising, we have to end the meeting for the day. Due to time constraint, we have to called it a day. The saddest part is when I have to say goodbye & leave the place. It felt as if we just met. I don't want time to end that soon. I always felt that I still have a lot of thing to discuss & talk it out with her.

 Meileng knows how to get me talking since I'm the quiet type you see. With others, I can't be like what I am when I'm with Meileng. My true self, character comes out when I'm with her. I don't need to pretend to be like what I'm not used to be. With her, I can simply say out whatever's bothering me spontaneously. I don't have to plan out what I have to say. It just happens spontaneously. But my biggest fear is that along the way, I might say something that might get her offended. Due to my spontaneous speech, I'm very worried. But I hope I won't say something that might offend her.

We explore Orchard Road despite not being familiar with that area. Shall call it "Orchard Exploration" but didn't manage to explore much due to l ack of stamina & time constraint. We are scheduled to meet up during lunch time. When reaching Orchard, it's almost 2pm. Walk around to explore. We planned to visit H&M but ended up going somewhere else. Went to Neon Orchard, New Look(Did i spelt it correctly?) & Plaza Singapura & much ore which I can't recalled. She showed me the way to Daiso. It's quite embarrasing that I just came to know there's such shop available. Everything sells for $2.00... Ooooooohhh.... I'm always at home & didn't get the opportunity to explore the places around. But I'll seized every opportunity that's given to me...

Time check it's already 11:03pm. My eyes are getting heavier. I'll update more when I had the time to do so. I'm physically & mentally tired right now. I'd better get my sleep right away & shall not forced myself to stay awake when my eyes are telling me to rest.

Till the next time. Cherio peeps!


♥♥♥♥ A smile is all it takes to cheer up the day. So remember keep smiling :-) ♥♥♥♥

Hari Raya Coming To An End

Today is the 26 September, which means it marks the 28 days of Syawal. That means one more day to go before Syawal makes it exit. Goodbye Syawal, Goodbye Raya. It seems so fast that this special month is leaving us. I'm goina miss it for sure. Times flies real quick.

I'm writing in the comfort of my living room. It's been a while since I last blog. I admit that I don't have the privilege to blog daily. I won't write if I'm lacking of idea. Plus I'm not a daily blogger although I wish I could be one. Nevertheless, I'll try to blog as frequent as I could. I'll try to squeeze in some time to blog. I can only do so during my free time.

I'm not goina write much for today as it's already late. My eyes are getting heavier as I try to type out every alphabet & words. I'm better get my beauty sleep soon or I'll be having panda eyes & even eye bags that might scare aware others who bump into me. Ahaha....

Till the next time peeps! I'll try to blog regarding my agenda for the weekend(24-25 Sep), as soon as I get the chance to do so. Until then, take care & cherio readers!

Remember a smile is all it takes to cheer up the day. So remember, keep smiling :-)

 ♥♥♥♥ I'm so gonna ♥♥♥♥ it

Half September Gone

Today marks the 20th day of Raya, Eid-ul-fitri... 9 more days left for raya before it make it exit.. Time passes real quick... I can never chase the time but I can only try my best to walk with it. Go with the flow with life. Do I make sense here? What crap am I talking about down here? Sigh..

18 days already past in this month of September. What are the things that happened throughout this period of time? Happy, sad, dissappointment, frustration, any more? 

Those are the things that we're likely to encounter in our daily life. Life is like a spinning wheel. No doubt, we'll be encountering to any of those situations in life. 

What are the things that's happening throughout this month?

It's quite a hectic month for me. Busy running some errands.There's quite a few things to settle throughout the day. My biggest wish for September is to be granted a permanent placement in the job industry. It's hard for me to get employ by employees. Perhaps my resume wasn't good enough or maybe it doesn't stand up among the rest of applicants. One of the other reasons which I can think of is my lack of ability to speak well during the interview sessions. 

I still do feel awkward to start a conversation with people around. Being away from the working industry for quite a long time had prevent me to have a smooth conversation with others. I'm trying my best to be more presentable in public especially when it come to public speaking. But it's hard for me. I seriously thinks that I need a proper session to guide me in the way to speak in public, during interview session. Personal grooming class perhaps? 

Honestly thinking of all these is making me tired. Physically & mentally tired. Anyway in early September I gained weight. When I noticed that, I obviously freak out. Like usual. But halfway in September which is now, I lost back the weight that I just gained. Within 6 days after I had a drastic lost of appetite, I lost the extra pounds that I gained. Am I happy? Of course I am! Wee... But I know I lost weight the unhealthy way by skipping several meals for the day & by eating lesser than usual. 

Sometimes, I wonder what causes the drastic weight loss? Stress or feeling pressurised? I'm unsure which causes it? But one thing for sure, whenever I feels stress out, I'll quickly tell myself repeatedly that I must cheer up. Either by listening to soothing, calming music, killing time with games or watching movies online, etc... Thinking of happy thoughts will instantly put a smile on my face. I am a happy-go-lucky girl despite being quiet & shy. That shall be the way :)

I'm ending my final post for this week. Till the next time peeps! Cherio! Remember a smile is all it takes to cheer up the day! So keep smiling :)

P.S: I know I'm quite slow. Just discover this song from youtube. I could say I kinda love the melody the first time I heard it.It could be my latest favourite on my playlist.


http://youtu.be/iEPTlhBmwRg

Comparison In Reality

Hi everyone... I'm back after a week of absence. Sorry for the lack of updates. I try to blog as frequent as possible but due to time constraint, I have to slow down a bit.

Let me try to pick out a topic for discussion. Let me think.... Ermmm.. Alright this shall be my spontaneous discussion on the chosen topic. Totally unplanned! Let's talk about status this time. That kind of status or rather rank in the industry, be it working life, schooling or daily life. According to my own research, there's a few type or behaviour that people especially those in the higher rank behave.

It's common from what I observe, those with a higher rank like executive, managerial position will behave in a somehow "different" from us the non-executive level. Perhaps with their higher position, they normally think highly of themselves. In some cases, they don't go about mixing with those from the non-executive level. They don't even bother to care about their staff welfare matters, etc...

Managerial & executive level can get along pretty well maybe due to their level rank. Having a pleasant discussion together while those in the non-executive rank were left out from the group. This things is common everywhere. In some cases where a new staff just join the company, not confirm yet as a perm staff, they are the ones who will feels totally left out. Perhaps the nature of work, environment is different. In some places, the colleagues are totally friendly while some may not be the same. Perhaps it's the way how we view things.

Of course not everyone from the executive level behaves that way. It only applies to some. I think there is an invisible line that cut through between managerial, executive & non-executive level.

In reality, this is it. Like it or not, we have to face it willingly. Let's learn to accept things positively instead of viewing things the negative way. It's easier said that done but if we try our best, we definitely will be able to achieve it.

I'm running out of ideas to elaborate more on this topic. Perhaps some other time, I may or may not continue writing with this topic. Only time can answer.

I shall end my post for this topic. Till the next time. Cherio readers! Have a great day everyone :)

When September Came

This shall be my first update for this month. Hello September.

Last weekend I went for my first Raya visiting. But it's kinda embarrassing when I still receive "green packets" a.k.a. hangbao or whatever it's called. For the benefit of those who have not heard of this word I'll include images of it below. It simply means an envelope, a small one, containing money. I'm sure everyone understand what I'm saying. What am I talking about. Like duh!

I'm lucky to get this packets from every house that I visited. Like oopsss... I shouldn't be getting them at this age. Being in the adult stage makes me feels embarrass & somewhat awkward to receive it ... Maybe they still think I'm a student. But perhaps they knew I'm still unemployed.. Alrite... Will take that as the reason. Ahaha...

 Not goina update much for today. Till the next time peeps. Cherio :)

 P.S.: I'm quite sad that my breakout is yet to recover. Hoping that it shall recover totally soon. Yesterday, one acne just pop up & I freaked out again! Scary feelings thinking of the scars...

My 100 Truths

In response to Wendy's Ng that tagged me in FB somewhere in February 2011.    

Responses Completed on 23-02-2011, midnight:
ERROR!ERROR!ERROR!

After failing to include this "Note Responses" on my Facebook Note's Tab countless number of times, I give up. I decided to include it here.

Rules: Once you've been tagged, you are supposed to write a note with 100 Truths about you. At the end, choose 25 people to be tagged. You have to tag the person who tagged you. Tagged means "I'm interested in knowing what are your 100 truths".

(To do this, go to “notes” under tabs on your profile page, copy and paste this note, erase my answers and enter your own, tag people (in the right hand corner of the app) then click publish.) I'm annoyed that I can't paste my answer on the "Notes" Tab.

Here's my answer:

WHAT WAS YOUR:
1. Last beverage: Plain water
2. Last phone call: Cheryl
3. Last text message: Mimi
4. Last song you listened to: Hold It Against Me
5. Last time you cried: 31st Dec 2010

HAVE YOU EVER:
6. Dated someone twice: Never
7. Been cheated on: No
8. Kissed someone & regretted it: Never
9. Lost someone special: Yes
10. Been depressed: Yes
11. Been drunk and threw up: Never

LIST THREE FAVORITE COLORS:
12. Yellow
13. Lime green
14. Pink/Purple

THIS YEAR HAVE YOU: (2011)
15. Made a new friend: Not yet
16. Fallen out of love: No
17. Laughed until you cried: Not yet
18. Met someone who changed you: Not yet
19. Found out who your true friends were: Yup
20. Found out someone was talking about you: Ermm...
21. Kissed anyone on your friend's list: Never
22. How many people on your friends list do you know in real life: All except a few mutual friends
23. How many kids do you want?: 2
24. Do you have any pets: Nope
25. Do you want to change your name: Yes, but I shall accept the way it is.
26. What did you do for your last birthday: Going out with an old friend for a day out during the weekend. Celebrate with family at home with a special key-shape cake which represent 21yrs of age, the key to freedom.
27. What time did you wake up?: Slept for few hrs b4 waking up in the morning ard 6++. (I can't really sleep at night, insomnia) ._.
28. What were you doing at midnight last night: Updating my blog while listening to music and played games which I've downloaded.
29. Name something you CANNOT wait for: For now I would say I can't wait to start working!
30. Last time you saw your Mother: 2 years ago
31. What is one thing you wish you could change about your life: Be a better person for a better living.
32. What are you listening to right now: Lonely No More while trying to complete this note responses
33. Have you ever talked to a person named Tom: Nope
34. Who is getting on your nerves now?: Hmmm...
35. Most visited webpage: Youtube for any movies or music videos & www.moviewatch.in for free online movies
36. Whats your real name: Find it out yourself! (I'll nvr reveal it on any networking websites like FB, etc...)
37. Nicknames: Ms D'Lyte
38. Relationship Status: Single
39. Zodiac sign: Taurus
40. Male or female?: Female
41. Primary School?: Punggol Primary School
42. Secondary School?: Serangoon Secondary School
43. High school/college?: BMC Academy
44. Hair colour: It's originally Dark Brown
45. Long or short: Long
46. Height: 165 cm (Might shrink or increase over the years since the day I stop measuring my height)
47. Do you have a crush on someone?: No
48: What do you like about yourself?: Will work harder to achieve what I want...
49. Piercings: Only one on each ear.
50. Tattoos: Nope
51. Righty or lefty: Depends.

FIRSTS :
52. First surgery: Not yet
53. First piercing: Few days after I'm born. Done in a traditional way at home.
54. First best friend: Ermmm...
55. First sport you joined: Not into sports but I only prefers cycling.
56. First vacation: No real vacation yet
58. First pair of trainers: -

RIGHT NOW:
59. Watching: I'm staring at my laptop screen monitor while completing this.
60. Drinking: None
61. I'm about to: End completing this notes. It's gettin on my nerve real soon!
62. Listening to: Qn repeated. Obviously music with headphones on!
63. Waiting for:  When is this thing goina end! (Completing notes)

YOUR FUTURE :
64. Want kids?: Like Duh.. What a qn to ask...
65. Get married?: Like Duh
66. Career: Job which I feel happy with

WHICH IS BETTER :
67. Lips or eyes: Eyes
68. Hugs or kisses: It all depends
69. Shorter or taller: I'm thankful for my height
70. Older or Younger: I'm always young at heart. Hehe...
71. Romantic or spontaneous: Depends
72. Nice stomach or nice arms: Both can?
73. Sensitive or loud: Sensitive
74. Hook-up or relationship: Relationship that means to both parties

HAVE YOU EVER :
76. Kissed a stranger: Never
77. Drank hard liquor: Never
78. Lost glasses/contacts lens: Not yet
79. Sex on first date: Never
80. Broken someone's heart: Let me think... Nope
82. Been arrested: Never
83. Turned someone down: Huh? I think it never happen b4...
84. Cried when someone died: Yes
85. Fallen for a friend: No for now but not sure in the future

DO YOU BELIEVE IN:
86. Yourself: Yes
87. Magic: In real life, yes for those with the power of magic like magicians. Magic in science-fiction... Miracle do happens (does it count).
88. Love at first sight: Not really. Never judge a book by its cover except their hygiene appearance. But the 1st thing that shall be look at is their inner personality. Attitude counts!
89. Heaven: Yes.
90. Santa Claus: No
91. Kiss on the first date: No
92. Angels: They do exists

ANSWER TRUTHFULLY:
94. Had more than 1 girlfriend/boyfriend at a time: Never had any special one yet
95. Did you sing today?: Yes
96. Ever cheated on somebody?: Never & never want that to happen..
97. If you could go back in time, how far would you go?: Childhood when the family is complete
98. The moment you would choose to relive?: ----
99. Are you afraid of falling in love?: Not sure
100. Are you afraid of posting this as 100 truths?: Ermm nope but since I've already completed it, I'll just post them despite the silly feelings. LOL.....

P.S. This have been in my archive for so long since February 2011. But I'll just post it today.

♥Salam Lebaran 2011♥

Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri 1432H, Maaf Zahir Batin to all Muslims. Minal' Aidzin Wal Faidzin. Salam lebaran. Eid Mubarak! Ermmm... What else? 

I'm back! It feels so good to be back. For nearly a month of lack of updates, I'm finally back :) Today is the 2nd day of "lebaran", "raya" "eid-ul-fitr" or whatever term is used for greetings. It's time to celebrate after a month of fasting. This year there's only 29 days of Ramadan. But to some like Indonesia, it is still 30 days. That means Indonesia just celebrate 1st Syawal today.

Throughout August, I did not really update my blog. Only for some reason, I did a quick update just to share some links or music videos that I think I need to share during the month of Ramadan & towards the upcoming Syawal. Not really a "proper update" though.

I'd like to share a link, a video meant for Lebaran. A musical programme by local station called "Simfoni Lebaran". To be honest, I did not really get a a chance to catch it during its telecast. I was away on eve of raya & during it's 2nd telecast on the morning of Raya, I'm busy with some preparation. I only managed to watch toward the end of the programme. So I decided to include the video below. Courtesy from XinMsn catchup tv.

Check out this great MSN video: Episode 1



Will watch this some day. Just update for posting. I'm not sure if the embeded codes works. Otherwise, just click the link to watch it.

PS. I have yet to do any visiting for raya this year. I'm unsure when will the day be for "visiting". Maybe weekend. Ermmm only weekend is possible.

I'll have to stop for now. Till the next update. I know this is quite a short update but as the title goes, it have to be something related to the current festive. I might update some day since I can't think of any updates for sharing. I'm not going to get too personal here as it's open to public. Only things that I feel can be share with readers, I will write it down otherwise I'll not reveal any.

Cherio readers & Wasalam to passerby muslim readers if any :-)

 ♥♥♥♥ I'm so gonna ♥♥♥♥ it

♥ Local Hari Raya Songs 2011 (Festive Songs) ♥

I keep telling myself not to update this month but I cannot help it. I just wanna share the 2 videos below & I'm not goina elaborate on anything. I must update today because of the festive mood approaching in 4 days time; Yup it's known as Hari Raya Aidilfitri or "Eid-ul-Fitri" as known worldwide.


I just wanna share my favourite song for Hari Raya this year. It happens to be a new released songs from my idol; Taufik Batisah. There's only 2 songs sung by him. One solo performance & the other one is a duet with the 2nd SG idol. Well I'm not a fan of the 2nd SG idol but since my idol is in the song, I shall include the live performance below.


My Most Favourite Song is the solo performance which is entitle "Syawal Yang Mulia" by Taufik.

http://youtu.be/rt7HvSWG7Q8




Below's is a duet with the 2nd idol. A song entitle "Kenangan Di Hari Raya"


http://youtu.be/DkEqccsv-GQ




I enjoy watching his live performance. I was there when he sang that song. I came down to catch his live performance cum autograph session. But nope, I didn't get his autograph neither did I purchase his Raya album. Just came down to catch him singing live. Truly enjoy his performance :)


I'm ending my entry for now. I'll update more after Raya which is September! Still busy with the festive preparations. Btw, tomorrow is Singapore's President's Election Day. We, Singaporeans all have to vote. I'm goina get some sleep for now. Will need to wake up early tomorrow morning for voting. The sweet thing is the voting place is right next to my housing estate; a primary school. That's the venue for voting. I have no idea who to vote. I'm not familiar with the political candidates...

Good night to all readers stopping by my blog. Do leave a comment at the chatbox informing where you're from. Till the next time. Cherio readers :)

♥♥♥♥ I'm so gonna ♥♥♥♥ it

Ramadan 2011

This video had been posted about 2 months ago. I only get the time to view it now. As I've mentioned last month, I'm not goina write any post for this month. But I post this just for sharing since this is the month of Ramadhan. I find it peaceful to listen to this kind of music in this holy month. Perhaps that's the spirit of Ramadhan. So here it goes.





Another video released on August 13. I wanna include this in my blog for future viewing.




Both videos featuring my favourite singer; Maher Zain :)

p.s: Today marks the 15th day of Ramadhan. 14 more days remaining before Aidilfitri.. Time flies real quick!

Have a blessed Ramadhan to all Muslim's out there :)

Final Post For Now

This will be my final post for this month & most probably till end of August. I'm looking forward to the upcoming month of Ramadhan. For sure, within this special month, there'd definitely be a lot of things to settle & to be done. I've decided to take a break from blogging till the end of August to be more focus on the necessary, top most priority task to be done. Probably by September 2011, I'll be back to pen down all the things that happen within my absence from blogging.

With this I will say; "Goodbye July" & "Hello August"... I may not have the time to update my blog this weekend so I decided to squeeze in some time do a "quick update" today. I'm not going to write up a long entry like usual but this post is just to remind myself or "returning visitors"(if there's any) that I'll be away for a month or more. Thus, there'd be no updates throughout my absence.

Seriously, I have no idea whether there are returning visitors or any readers whose goina read my blog. But since there are a few visitors as shown at the "stats counter", I'm quite delighted... In February 2011, there's only about less than 100 visitors but since end of March 2011, the number of visitors shoot up to 1000.  Only in early 2011, I made my blog available to public without any restrictions. Seeing the number of visitors multiplying somehow made my day. Atleast there are readers who visited or read my post.

I'm not goina drag any further. I'm happy if anyone who read my posts felt the same too. Seeing someone else's or anyone happy will simply brighten up my day....

Final words from me; A smile is all it takes to cheer up the day. So remember, Keep Smiling :-) Cherio readers!

♥♥ D'Lytez ♥♥

♥♥♥♥ I'm so gonna ♥♥♥♥ it


(P.S: Pls ignore all the grammatical or language mistakes made. Bcos I simply love to write & hoping that by frequent blogging, I can improve on my so-called "imperfections" in language)

Facebook Maniac

I wonder why people are making use of fb to rant about their terrible day. Cursing, complaining is a common status each time I log into fb. The question is why must these people pass out an awful remarks on fb?

What's the purpose of Facebook?

I get irritated with all those. Not only negative remarks but also people are using facebook to reval about their personal routine and even personal affairs, eg relationship status. Why must you go on bragging about the new expensive stuffs you bought. Going out on a romantic date with your partner. Elaborating on every details of the day. Isn't it a little bit over reacted?

The funny thing is that particular person will brag daily. We wouldn't mind if you wanna share your personal experience on your fb status but must you post everyday about the same thing. Over and over again, that bragging is repeated. That makes me bored whenever I logged into fb.

Must you tell the whole world regarding your daily agenda. Time spent with your loved ones? Please stop bragging about your relationship status with your partner. I'm sick and tired of reading the same post daily. Must you even post on fb when your boyfriend or girlfriend is away on a work schedule, studies or even NS. I remembered a female friend from my friend list is posting daily, doing countdown on the day her boyfriend will be back from NS. Come on girl! Get on a life!

You don't have to inform the whole world how much you dearly missed your bf right? You are acting as if you are the only one whose in love. Don't over react about your love story girl! It's best to be on a low profile especially when you're in love. You'll never knew what happens next. Everyone knew you're currently in a relationship but you don't have to keep posting about your "date" with your bf. Posting updates on your status & pics whenever you go out on a date.

Apart from the most common relationship status update on fb, there are other common status too. The normal bragging about stuffs bought. Complaining about work issues. Wonder why people must grumble each time they are hungry. If you are hungry then go get yourself a meal. Case solved right! Again if you post it once in a while, people won't get too irritated but you are posting it almost daily. You're getting on our nerve peeps... By informing us every single details of your day, you are encouraging us to be a "busybody", or the proper term used NOSEY.  Prying eyes into someone elses affairs is not my forte.

Don't get too personal in facebook peeps... If you really wanna elaborate more about your day then I suggest you start writing it on a blog. If they fells like reading your blog, they'll definitely visit your blog. Don't force anyone to read about your stories by posting it on your fb status. You may if you wish, to post a link to your blog if you want it to be read by your friends. But never post a long updates as your status & worst still posting a multiple updates on your status. You are just spamming everyone's wall.

I hope it's clear on what I meant by facebook maniac. I have no intention to insult anyone but this is just a common status found in facebook.  No offence to anyone. My apologies if anyone by all means felt offended by my post.

That's it for now. Till the next update. Adios & Cherio readers!

   
♥♥ A Smile Is All It Takes To Cheer Up The Day. Keep Smiling :-) ♥♥

11 July 2011

Couldn't think of a title today so it shall be today's date.

6 months had past. Half a year gone. It's July & 2011 will end in 5 months time. Time past real quick. 5 months is still quite a long time to end but without us realising, it shall end real quick.

I don't know what to write today but since I've not written any entries this month, I shall work on it. I'll try to update every month. 

In two weeks time, July shall make it exit and August shall enter. (Today is only 11 of July. Why am I talking about ending this month? I think too far ahead. Hehe..) Talking about August, it's goina be the start of the fasting month, Ramadhan. 1st August shall be the first day of Ramadhan. Exactly two full weeks before fasting starts. 6 more days through this week & 2 full weeks, 14 days left before fasting starts. This year fasting starts on Monday. Hopefully on that day Monday Blues can be avoided. Hehe....

I'm thankful that I managed to clear my remaining fast by June last month. After much of procrastination, I survived! Yeah...

What I hope for this month is to be in the pink of health & manage to secure a permanent placement real soon. I need that income for daily survival. After countless number of applications, I hope one kind soul will accept mine. Hopefully. For sure I'm tired of waiting but I shall never give up in hoping for nothing but only the best in the future ahead.

That shall be it for today's post. The first post in July. Adios readers. Cherio :-)

♥♥ Live life to the fullest ♥♥

Honest Reply

I get this alot. I was often ask this question; "Hey it's been so long since I last meet you. How are you doing? Are you attached or single?" Friends are so eager to know about the "relationship status". Notice why I put a quote (")? The reason: I'm sure I'm not the only one whom often get this type of question. This is the top favourite being ask by many.

Usually this "relationship status or topic" is often being pick by majority when meeting up with friends whom they have not seen in ages. I belong to one of the "victim".  Not to mention friends, even relatives do that.

Especially when attending an engagement or wedding, this will be the most frequently ask question. (Am I attached? When will I get engaged? When will my wedding take place? Hopefully I'll be next.) When they ask me the FAQ,  I'll just say Amin, Insya Allah or just smile. It's best not to say a word. But, the more I try to avoid, the more likely they'll ask.

And now an honest reply from me. Believe it or not, I've never fall in love throughout my life. If I don't even have time to hang out with my long time friends, what more going out on a date or having a serious relationship? I'm hope that clears that FAQ. Ahah!

This shall be my final post for June. Goodbye June. It's hard to say goodbye but that shall be it. Adios readers & cherio :-)

♥ A Smile Is All It Takes To Cheer Up The Day. Keep Smiling :-)  ♥

I'm In A Despair ;- (

Yeah! One more day & I'm done... Finally.... I can defeat my "procrastination". Yes... I've proven one thing. Anything can be achieved when done with a GREAT DETERMINATION... I survived! But I couldn't be too happy until I completed the remaining day.

My Despair
My feelings is in despair. I'm happy that I managed to defeat my procrastination but at the same time, I'm feeling really down. Feels like crying, explode & nearly give up. I've tried very hard in job search but no one seems to have given me the chance to prove myself. I'm inexperience &amp perhaps that's the reasons why I was often rejected.

I'm just hoping that one kind soul will give me a chance to prove myself. Give someone like me whom just graduated about a year ago a chance in the working industry. I have no experience because I was not given the chance to start working. Thousands over applications over the past 18 months since the day I graduated but no one has ever given me the chance to have the experience to get started.

If this is the case, then every single fresh graduates out there will never have the chance to prove themselves. I don't know what else to do. I've been waiting all my life.

Jobs that doesn't requires any experience as training will be provided. This sounds great BUT applicants must be able to speak MANDARIN. This is so unfair for non-mandarin speaking people! The question is does every customers come from CHINA that we often need to liase with Chinese speaking clients? Sorry to say this but I personally think this is so biased & unfair! common, Sg is a multi racial country. We speak different dialects down here.

The only thing that hinders for applicants including me to be employ is an unreasonable language barier! The main requirements should atleast be bilingual. Everything is in english down here. What the heck is there always a need for mandarin speaking applicants. That requirements is a MUST to speak Mandarin to liase with chinese speaking clients. If this is the case, I will never secure a job forever! Totally absurd!

If talking about experience, I might not have much but they should atleast give me a chance.

I'm tired thinking about this. Whenever an interviewer take a look at my resume & noticed that I was unemployed for quite a long time, they pass on this remarks. " Why are you unemployed for so long? Are you being so choosy? I thought the market is quite good & you should be able to secure a job easier."

How am I to get a job easier if not even one kind soul(employer) give me a chance to have that "Experience" to prove myself. Their remarks hurts a lot! If only they knew the trouble I went through, doing an intensive job search daily. Working on so hard until I fall sick easily lately because of the stress. I'm at this age & still unemploy. They thought I simply slack around being lazy & postponing job search. But the fact that I went through all the sleepless night thinking when will I start work every single moment. At any point of the day, I logged in various job portal & screening through the posted jobs one by one. Morning, afternoon, night & midnight;  I'll seize every available timing of the day to continue on my search.

After all that, how can they say I'm lazy? It broke my heart. Totally dampened my spirit to presevere. I give up! I don't wanna think about all the negativity that will make me feels so down.

I wanna think only on the happy thoughts. Let's stay happy at all times.

Remember my favourite quotation? A Smile is All It Takes To Cheer Up the Day. Keep Smiling :-)

♥ D'Lytez

P.S (Excuse me for any language or grammatical error made along the way)

Britney's MV That I Watch Recently & Few Months Back

Today I happen to came across Britney's new MV that was released on 22 June recently. Click on it & listen to it. Kinda like the beats. For sure "the beats sounds so Britney". It had reached over 6 millions views in 2 days. Real fast.

I dare not say it's my latest favourite song bcos I just heard it for the first time. Perhaps after listening for a couple of times, I might like this song. It's still too early to make this my favourite.

http://youtu.be/T-sxSd1uwoU



Britney's MV 2011.

http://youtu.be/M3Lqg-46mDo



http://youtu.be/qzU9OrZlKb8


Both MV is the same but not sure why VEVO uploaded it twice but adding a "dance" word in front of the title. The one above is longer by 3 seconds.

http://youtu.be/-Edv8Onsrgg





♥♥♥♥ I'm so gonna ♥♥♥♥ it

Midnight Quick Update

Time check on my monitor, it's 12:24; I can't sleep. I'm writing in the living room. Been having sleepless night lately. Staring at the blank, dark ceileng.

Few more days to go & I'm done with my fastings. Finally, I managed to prevent myself from procrastinating to complete my remaining "fast".  Yesterday during the pre-dawn meal, I took my meal around 4:40am. I almost stay awake the whole night so as to prevent from overslept.  The heavy rain in the middle of the night had awaken me from my short nap. I'm the only one whose awake for the "pre-dawn meal". The rest were asleep. Eating alone is no "fun" but I had to because I had to complete my remaining fast. Hoping to complete the rest by this month.

I'm not going to write much today. Perhaps I shall continue the next time round. That's it for now. Till the next time. Adios :-)

Percubaan Pertama Setelah Sekian Kalinya Tertunda

Akhirnya, setelah sekian kalinya tertunda, terlaksana juga hasrat untuk menulis dalam bahasa melayu, bahasa ibunda. Macam betul aje.... Harap maklum kalau ada tersilap bahasa kerana da lama tak tulis.

Bagaimanakah aku harus memulakan tulisan kali ini? Aku akan cuba.

Keinginan untuk menulis dalam bahasa melayu telah lama wujud sejak sekian lama tertunda. Kali terakhir aku menulis dalam bahasa ibunda kira-kira 6 tahun yang lalu. Itu pun sewaktu peperiksaan Bahasa Melayu GCE Peringkat "O"... Lama tu... Akhirnya terlaksana juga.

Disebabkan tiada lagi "peperiksaan" aku tidak lagi menulis. Walaupun menulis merupakan sesuatu kegiatan yang paling aku gemari pada suatu ketika. Nanti dulu, sekarang minat menulis tetap masih ada walaupun tidak begitu sering dilakukan.

Sejak dua tahun yang lalu, aku mula aktif menulis dengan membuat "blog" ini. Namun begitu, semua "post" tulisan ditulis dalam bahasa inggeris. Cuma ada satu sahaja artikel yang ditulis dalam bahasa melayu.

Kenapa Blog ini Dibuat?
Soalan ini pernah dijawab sebelumnya tetapi bukan dalam bahasa melayu melainkan Bahasa Inggeris.

Seperti yang tersedia maklum, menulis memang merupakan salah satu hobi atau kegemaranku sejak kecil lagi. Mungkin disebabkan diri ini yang pendiam dan pemalu, aku menggunakan wadah ini untuk mengekspresikan diri. Menulis merupakan jalan yang tepat untuk berkongsi atau meyuarakan pendapat tentang pelbagai perkara. Inilah caraku untuk berkomunikasi. Dengan menulis dengan kerap, aku yakin komunikasi dapat diperbaiki dan menjadi kian lancar. Aku cuba untuk mengimbangi kedua bahasa inggeris dan melayu.

Tanggapan Orang/Masyarakat Terhadapku:

Terdapat sesetengah orang yang berpendapat bahawa diriku "sombong" atau tidak tahu bergaul; "anti-social". Persepsi mereka salah seratus peratus. Sifat-sifat aku dalam 3 perkara": Pemalu, Pendiam & Ceria. ("I'm a happy-go-lucky girl" Aku tidak tahu untuk menterjemahkan bahasa inggeris tersebut ke bahasa melayu jadi aku memutuskan untuk menggunakan perkataan "ceria".) Inilah sifatku yang sebenarnya.

Jadi, adakah pemalu, pendiam boleh disifatkan sebagai sombong? Orang yang pendiam tidak boleh disifatkan sebagai sombong kerana pada dasarnya atau sejak awal keperibadian mereka memang seperti itu.  Aku akui aku tidak pandai untuk bergaul. Komunikasi agak terbatas. Tapi mungin pada suatu hari nanti, komunikasi akan semakin lancar Insya-Allah.

Jadi, janganlah menilai aku seperti itu. Jangan mudah membuat kesimpulan mahupun penilaian sebelum mengenali sifat sebenar seseorang. Apa yang dilihat kadangkalanya tidak seperti apa yang difikirkan.

Aku rasa cukup sampai di sini sahaja percubaan kali ini. Insya-Allah lain kali, aku akan cuba untuk menulis dengan lebih terperinci lagi mengenai sesuatu topik. Aku akan cuba untuk membahas topik atau perkara-perkara tertentu.

Tapi buat masa ini, aku cuba untuk lebih kerap menulis dalam bahasa inggeris kerana ingin memperbaiki dan melancarkan komunikasi dalam bahasa inggeris. Seperti tersedia maklum, bahasa utama di negara ini adalah Bahasa Inggeris & aku harus memperbaikinya bagi untuk mempermudahkan urusan di mana-mana sektor, bidang dan juga di tempat kerja.

Aku akhiri tulisan kali ini dan semoga dapat diteruskan lagi di lain waktu. Salam ceria kepada semua pembaca blog.

Ceria selalu! ♥♥♥♥

It's 3am & I'm Awake!

It's 3am in the morning & I'm widely AWAKE! Isn't this GREAT? Hehehe.... (It's already past 3:11am)

I'm not going to write much but just a little on everything. I'm tired but I'll still update for my "love" in blogging. Ahah!

I had "Ice Kacang" earlier & it taste Yummy-Licious..... In times of hot weather like this, all I need is THIS! Icy cold dessert.

Months ago I've been trying to upload what I had for dinner but tend to procrastinate. Since I had many other uncomplete task, I had to postpone this. I'll just combine today's entry with it. 

This is what I called "Diet Dinner". My version of diet. You'll see what I meant. A very light dinner I ever ate. Haha! Little but high calories!

 Sundae Ice-Cream dessert

 U.S. Fries

 Ice Honey Green Tea

(I had to reduce the quality size of the photos for easy/fast upload. Capture using camera phone.)

Time check: It's 4:10 as appear in the clock monitor.

I'll sign out real soon. That's all for now. Adios! Cherio... Remember to smile. Hehe...

♥♥♥♥ I'm so gonna ♥♥♥♥ it

Random Thoughts of The Day

It says that "Patience is Virtue" but how much longer must I wait? I'm just so restless. Tired with all those empty promises made. The waiting seems to be endless.  At times I just feels like giving up. Please show me some "enlightenment"..... I'm hoping that the wait shall end soon...

*Credits to Google Images for the above images

Fast Foods..... Yummy but Unhealthy

Fat foods is definitely yummy but unhealthy. Avoid eating them frequently. Too much calories. I'm not going to comment or write anything for this entry. Just images. Here's some of the compilations images of my favourites:

Credits to Google's Images

 KFC Cheezy BBQ Meltz

 Banana Split@Swensens

 Big Mac

 Chilli Crab Pasta @ Swensens

 Swensens Ice Cream

 Breaded Chicken @ Swensens

 Pizza Hut

 Pizza Hut's Dessert

 ♥♥♥♥ I'm so gonna ♥♥♥♥ it